i have a ADHD child who is tempered tantrum. whenever he get angry he will bang his head onto the wall or with his hand . may i know what is the good way to manage him?well, i try to explain to him, but is not listening.
i have a ADHD child who is tempered tantrum. whenever he get angry he will bang his head onto the wall or with his hand . may i know what is the good way to manage him?well, i try to explain to him, but is not listening.
My youngest had that problem.
It was me and not him. The last temper tantrum that he had was in a store.
I finally took control. My oldest boy was with us and I looked at him, (9 yrs, differencce) and calmly said…”Get him out of here now if you have to carry him.” Indeed that is what he had to do.
On the way home he was sniffling and sobbing. i was so angry inside at what i was about to say.
The reason we were at the store was to get chemicals for the pool. His Dad and all of his uncles were in the back yard opening up the pool for the summer.
I said to him..” when we get home, you will go straight to your room and you will not be able to come out for the night” Only three more hours to his bedtime anyway. But I flet like the worst mom there was alive.
But it worked and he never once had a temper tantrum again..
Other times it was trying to reason with him or giving in or having his father deal with it if I couldn’t.