Suspect a Problem?

If your child is in school or preschool and you think she should be doing better with her language skills, ask for a private meeting with the teacher. (You may feel more comfortable taking a friend, relative, or someone else in your community with you.) In most cases, the teacher or perhaps the principal will be able to help you understand how your child is doing and what you might do to help.

There is a law – the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) – that may allow you to get certain services for your child from your school district. Your child might qualify for help from a speech and language therapist or other specialist, or qualify to receive materials designed to match his needs. You can learn about your special education rights and responsibilities by requesting a summary of legal rights in your native language from the school. To find out about programs for children with disabilities available in your state, contact the National Information Center for Children and Youth with Disabilities.

The good news is that no matter how long it takes, most children can learn to read. Parents, teachers, and other professionals can work together to determine if a child has a learning disability or other problem and provide the right help as soon as possible. When a child gets such help, chances are very good that he will develop the skills he needs to succeed in school and in life. Nothing is more important for your child as he goes through school than your support. Make sure he gets any extra help he might need as soon as possible and encourage and praise his efforts.

As a parent, you can learn a lot about your child’s learning and watch for signs of possible problems. Here are some things to look for and discuss with his teacher:

• Starting at age 3 or 4: Does your child remember nursery rhymes and can he play rhyming games?
• At about age 4: Does your child have difficulty getting information or directions from conversations or books that are read aloud to him?
• Kindergartners: Is your child beginning to name and write the letters and numbers that he sees in signs, books, billboards, and other places?
• At age 5: Can your child play and enjoy simple word games that use alliteration, in which two or more words start with the same sound? For example: “Name all the animals you can think of that start with ‘w’.”
• At ages 5 and 6: Does your child act as if he understands that spoken words can be broken down into smaller parts (for example, noticing big in bigger)? Does he seem to understand that you can change a small part of a word and make it something very different (for example, by changing the first letter of a word like cat, you can make hat and bat and so on)?

Remember that children learn in different ways and at different rates. It is often difficult to measure how well they are learning.