My youngest son who falls on the Autism spectrum has been receiving services since the age of 21 months. At that time he had no speech/language skills, spun, rocked, hummed, stared at spinning object, lined things up, no make believe, and had no interest in making friends, ect. Too show how far he has come let me relay what happened last night. He sat down beside me and started telling me that having friends was difficult. He said that he was having difficulty at school deciding which friend to play with. So now instead of not being interested his dilema is how do I choose what friend to play with. Then he went on to demonstrate what he meant. He placed a lightsaber on the floor a chair a few feet away, he then laid in the middle with his arms and legs stretched out. He said this is what it feels like, like I am being pulled apart. He also stated that sometimes kids are mean and that maybe they should open up a school to teach kids to be nice. He then went on to play “nice school.” He got a few of his stuffed animals sat them in seats and proceeded to teach them social skills. He placed 2 bandaides on the backs of the stuffies and if the stuffy acted not nice a bandaid was removed. If the stuffy lost both bandaides they had to eat a piece of broccali, if they kept them both they got to eat a hotdog. Now maybe for most 10 year olds this would be considered not a big deal and actually immature behavior but when you take into consideration where the child started this is a big deal. During this same time he used vocabulary correctly, drew pictures, and used expression when speaking. It was a very good night last night and I am postitive that his early intervention is paying off.
Re: Proof that early intervention works
We also are having great success with early intervention for our autistic son who will be 5 years old in september. I understand exactly how meaninful nights like you wrote about are. Congradulations. My son has been in early intervention since he was 2 and a half. We want him to complete a third year at the early intervention pre-school before he starts kindergarten. Early intervention is so important. Of course the bean counters want to decrese his services… see ma-ma bear, see school administrators run, see ma-ma bear biting heads off school administrators.
Re: Proof that early intervention works
Great visual I can just see you chasing them and doing just that-lol. We had our son do 3 years of pre-school and although he is a year behind his peers 10 going into 4th grade he is able to keep up with the current bunch of kids he is in with. I think it was a good decision on our part. I am very pleased to hear that you and your son are having such success. Wishing you and your son continued success in the future.
And,quite possibly,he will grow up to start his school:-)
Give your little guy a hug for me:-) Amazing how our kids know how it should be..