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whats wrong with my daughter. HELP!

Submitted by an LD OnLine user on

my 17 year old now 18 was tested last year and her assessment she did said she was very low and low, below average on the things she is tested for maths was the main problem for her in school but there was other problems as well on the assessment she done it says she has learning difficultes does that mean the same has a learning disabltie? i wanna know

i wanna know if she has LD or ADD she can’t stick to the same task, she is immature at school she hang around people who were a few ages younger than her on all her report cards from the tim she started school says that she should start paying and attention and concentrate, she often forgets to do something she has a behaviour problem and she gets angry all the time she has been suspended and expelled from school a few times she can’t say some words propley esspecially the longer words, if you tell her to do something she does not do it straight she has been introuble with the cops before, she doesn’t respect authority she is impatience, she is a bit impulsive she smokes drinks has taken drugs before and doesn’t care what will happen to her she failed high school and cannot find a job. i am scared that she will go to jail one day.

so does she have LD or ADD or something else please tell me!

thanks very much

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 10/14/2003 - 8:33 PM

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I believe the terms learning difficulties and learning disabilities are interchangable (if I’m wrong someone please correct me!).

And I think only a psychologist (or neuropsychologist) can diagnose and recommend treatment for ADD.

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 10/15/2003 - 6:51 AM

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Hi again worried mum,

I didn’t have time to finish this message earlier because I had to run out the door.

Unfortunately, I don’t know too much about older teens with LD’s and/or ADD.

Although, one thing I do know is sometimes it’s very difficult to get clear answers. Children can be very complex. Since your daughter is 18 and legally an adult, I think your best bet is to try and encourage her to see a good psychologist. Maybe even offer to go with her if that would help.

Also, read through this website. There’s a lot of great infirmation here.

Best of luck to you.

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 10/20/2003 - 11:53 AM

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Some of the things you’re saying about your daughter do suggest that she might possibly be struggling with ADD and some learning differences/learning disabilities. As she’s failed high school, she could still get a GED but where to start is always the question.

Do you or she have a family doctor that she holds in any regard? Did she have a pediatrician? And have you talked with your daughter about ADD? It would be good to know what she says about that.

If you’ve talked with her, I’d next talk to the family doctor and tell them what the testing showed and discuss the possibility of ADD with him/her.

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