I have a 4 year old student who all of a sudden does not show the same motivation and disposition he used to in the beggining of classes. He used to be a happy boy, playing with all his peers, and enjoying pre-school activities, but now he just sits and plays by himself, not really enjoying anything. According to the family, nothing changed at home, he is not showing unmotivation or sadness at home. There aren’t any changes going on in his life either. What could this be?
sounds like a sad child to me
There are many possibilities. What though was the family’s reaction to what you told them? Whether he’s happy at home or not, they should be concerned that he’s no longer happy in school. And they should be willing to help you try to figure it out.
Were they?
If so, they’d likely want to talk with their son and gently ask about school. What he tells them is important. If, however, they weren’t concerned or even curious about the change in their son’s behavior at school, you’re on your own to try to figure it out.
Have you gently talked with the child? What happens when you send another child over to play with him? Will he play with other children when they begin to play with him or does he move off? Have you said, “tommy, you seem a little sad today. Are you feeling sad about anything?”
Have you talked with him about this change in his behavior? If there’s no specific problem, he may just need some extra encouragement and social direction.